Comments on: Should my wife start dating other men while we are still living together?

By: what the? 515

what the? 515 — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 15:58:28 +0000

I think your definelty right.

By: Lucy H

Lucy H — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 07:20:47 +0000

What a Bi*ch, not cool. And why do you have to live together for 3 more months? Go to a friends or family members house. What a skank!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: bessiethomas@ymail.com

bessiethomas@ymail.com — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 19:06:35 +0000

Really to be honest thats down right rude. I think she should at least wait untill one of you has moved out. So I believe shes already been seeing other people even before you two suggested this.

By: nonameblonde

nonameblonde — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 23:01:16 +0000

Geeezzz…the frying pan isn’t even off the fire yet!

By: Kris

Kris — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 04:53:21 +0000

im so sorry
if yall are married still she shouldnt
she might be thinking that if she has a relationship with another man and it doesnt work out she will still have you
get a divorce and show her you can do better
bring a woman home and see how she takes it
it sounds like shes the only one flirting with others
if so do it too and see what she says
if she realizes that loosing you is for real she might change her mind
im so sorry, you sound like a sweet guy and a very loving husband, im sorry your wife is a b****

By: azkoolchik

azkoolchik — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 17:46:45 +0000

Are you two just separating or going to be getting a divorce? If you are separating then she can chose to date if she wants. I think it would be best if you get out of the house asap. The situation you are in would make anyone unconferrable. It sounds to me like she is ready to move on. I don’t know how you stay with someone like that who just does no care for you and will date other people right in front of you. She could at least wait until you leave the home. It sound like your relationship is over and may need to do more than just separate. Have you tow seek marriage counseling? If not, you should before she goes to far.

By: Mr.HATE

Mr.HATE — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:47:16 +0000

She’s probably not doing anything different than she ever did anyways. At least now she’s not sneaking around about it.

By: K D

K D — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 05:27:21 +0000

Your wife is having emotional and possible other affairs on the computer. She may have met someone and most likely is seeing them already. It is addictive. My guess is that she was spending a great deal of time on the computer prior to this epiphany about her need to separate. The process of flirting and chatting creates a reaction that feels the same way “being in love” does when you meet someone you are attracted to. The chemicals start flying in your body and it’s a very false feeling but one that feels really good (temporarily). Her need to be validated by other men is sad and really doesn’t reflect you as much as some would like to blame you. You can be a doting husband and still have a spouse that seeks this “fix”. It’s an addiction and it’s not easily broken. It’s why so many marriages are falling apart and so many people talk about the proverbial “soulmate” they found. The reality of an affair partner is not usually even close to the fantasy of them so she is in for a rude awakening. Most women also do not understand how many men (most married) are looking for their own fix…not a new wife and not a new partner although they will tell you anything on line (or in person) to “get you” and lead you on for months and years. It’s all part of the game. Extradite yourself from this scene asap. Unless she wants to make it work with you it will be a futile attempt to fix it. You are going to get dragged into a hurtful murky place. She will need to learn the hard way and you need to protect yourself. She can’t miss you unless you are gone and that is your best hope to salvage this relationship. Best of luck to you.

By: Alex S

Alex S — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 12:37:54 +0000

i think what she is doing is totally wrong but you cant stop her from doing what you want to do

By: redhead27

redhead27 — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 00:04:35 +0000

Yes, and I suggest you start dating other men as well.