posted by Dani on Jan 27
comet_mist asked:
My fiance said that he is scared to have sex because his penis is oversensitive and it hurts to even touch it.He says thats why he doesn’t even masturbate.But we so want to start a family once we get married.Does anyone have any advice for us to overcome this?
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My fiance said that he is scared to have sex because his penis is oversensitive and it hurts to even touch it.He says thats why he doesn’t even masturbate.But we so want to start a family once we get married.Does anyone have any advice for us to overcome this?
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January 30th, 2009 at 9:19 am
Numb the gland in ice for 4 hrs and then wear a condom.
February 1st, 2009 at 8:24 am
go to a urologist
February 4th, 2009 at 3:54 am
condoms for practice, or just go see a doctor….
February 5th, 2009 at 4:26 am
Ask a doctor, he might have a problem. It also could be temporary. It could also be an excuse not to have sex before marriage, unless if you’ve had it in the past. He could probably get medication to make it hurt less or not at all.
February 8th, 2009 at 12:11 am
Make him take anti-depressant pills. Seriously, it will numb it. Worked for me
February 11th, 2009 at 9:47 am
You need to ride this boy hard and put him up wet.
February 12th, 2009 at 6:28 am
i have never heard of such a thing. take him by the hand and drag him to a urologist. you cannot marry him this way.
February 15th, 2009 at 12:45 am
i don’t know what 2 do about that but i can answer about how 2 have a family. if u want 2 have a family (w/ his problem and all) just adopt
February 17th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
maybe caused by incorrect circumcision,too tight…see a urologist…
February 17th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
You might want to check and make sure he doesn’t have something wrong like a disease or something but probably not.
The only way to make it less sensative is to be hard on it. Being tough on an area with nerve endings should deaden the nerves a little so they are less sensative.
February 21st, 2009 at 6:04 am
if he has seen a doctor, which I would reconmend 1st. try a product called Mandelay, it numbs a penis 4 premature ejct!
February 22nd, 2009 at 7:54 pm
He should see a doctor, but it sounds bullshit….but usually oral sex help with that, more you do it penis gets rough ridden…and you guys should just have more sex in general, that will set his insecurities free
February 22nd, 2009 at 11:48 pm
I don’t want to be cynical here….but this sounds highly suspicious!
A penis can be sensitive for a variety of reasons…but none of them are permanent!
February 23rd, 2009 at 10:56 pm
Use Lidocaine gel 2%, it will reduce sensation!
February 24th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
well untill you get married use thick condoms you can get them in most chemists, they will help his penis to desensitise and if you gradually reduce the thickness of the condoms eventually his penis should get used to love making!
That way when you guys are ready for making babies it wont hurt him and he will be able to enjoy it.
P.S if he is tense or worried about the sensitivity he wont enjoy sex so try a massage first just to get him relaxed.
Have fun
xx
February 26th, 2009 at 2:53 pm
It could come from a psychological problem as well…
February 27th, 2009 at 1:12 am
See a doctor! That does not sound right…
March 1st, 2009 at 11:09 pm
Brush it with Sensodyne twice a day.
March 4th, 2009 at 5:48 pm
Is your fiance uncircumcised? If so then an oversensitive penis can be quite common and is actually fairly easy to fix. He should just retract his foreskin to expose the entire glans (penis head) to the air for a few minutes each day. It doesn’t even need to touch anything, just exposing it to the air is enough. Over a period of time (a month or so), the sensitivity should decrease a little and he should get used to it so it becomes bearable.
If your fiance is circumcised then there might be some other underlying problem, in which case he should see a doctor promptly.
March 6th, 2009 at 5:38 am
First of all be very patient with him. There are a few things I would suggest and hopefully at least one of them will help.
1. He needs to put lotion on it after every shower. If it is hurting him because the skin is too tight and/or dry the lotion will help moisten and/or stretch the skin.
2. If he penis is just ultra sensitive he could be experiencing premature ejaculation. There are simple ways to cope with this if the problem isnt serious. Try a penis desensitizing cream that you can get from most adult stores or go to a site such as Adam & Eve.
3. If he is experiencing actual pain then he needs to go to a doctor. It may be hard to talk with a doctor about it but in the long run he will be happy he did.
In the meantime you can get a lot of information about guys and their penises at jackinworld.com. You may want to have him check it out as well.
Without any more information it is hard to say what else he should do. I hope that some of this helped. Good Luck!
March 7th, 2009 at 11:42 pm
he could use trojan extra sensitive condoms
March 11th, 2009 at 11:37 am
tell him it’s because there are no balls under it. he’ll change his story.
March 13th, 2009 at 11:31 am
contact a Urologist.