posted by Dani on Jan 13
Nubian King taken by *Bossy* asked:
To me sex is not that important. Don’t get me wrong sex is great, but it is not what makes a relationship great. I prefer making love with a person that I truly care about. I would much rather have trust, and a meaningful relationship with a women then just great sex. I feel the more that we can trust each other and have meaningful conversation and other things, the better the sex will be in the long run. I am just curious if anyone else feels the same or would you rather have great sex over anything else.
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To me sex is not that important. Don’t get me wrong sex is great, but it is not what makes a relationship great. I prefer making love with a person that I truly care about. I would much rather have trust, and a meaningful relationship with a women then just great sex. I feel the more that we can trust each other and have meaningful conversation and other things, the better the sex will be in the long run. I am just curious if anyone else feels the same or would you rather have great sex over anything else.
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January 16th, 2009 at 1:48 am
I feel the same way. If only more guys were like you…
January 18th, 2009 at 6:12 am
A good sexual relationship is mandatory for me. That doesn’t mean I must have “great sex over anything else”, but if we’re not sexually compatible the rest of the relationship isn’t going to work out anyway.
Yes, all the things you mentioned are important, and lack of any of them would be a dealbreaker.
January 18th, 2009 at 2:08 pm
i agree also!!
January 21st, 2009 at 7:32 pm
I absolutely agree… I love sex and we do have amazing sex but I wouldn’t prefer that over the deep and meaningful connection we share… we will have that forever… you can share amazing sex with someone you just have a great chemistry with but it’s superficial and fleeting… there is nothing better than having someone who is a lover… best friend… soul mate… and someone you can trust more than you ever thought possible… yeah its awesome… i hope i would never have to give up sex though lol
January 22nd, 2009 at 2:38 pm
I should think, that the better your relationship is, the better the sex would become. NOT to say that sex isn’t “great” and/or good with someone you just met. But that the sex, in a long relationship, should get better as the relationship progresses, because the two involved in the relationship get to know one another better. I know that that’s the way it has been in almost ALL of my relationships. Of course, there is a point, in a relationship, where the sex just gets to be the “same ol’ same ol’ ” and that’s usually because the two involved have become accustomed to the “status quo”. But if YOU are in a good relationship, then the two in the relationship should be comfortable enough with each other, to express that subject maturely, and agree if anything needs to be done about it, and/or what the solution(s) to the problem(s) may be.